Add Neo4j memory tuning config and query result limits (v0.43.0)

- Add Neo4j driver config options for memory management:
  - ORLY_NEO4J_MAX_CONN_POOL (default: 25) - connection pool size
  - ORLY_NEO4J_FETCH_SIZE (default: 1000) - records per batch
  - ORLY_NEO4J_MAX_TX_RETRY_SEC (default: 30) - transaction retry timeout
  - ORLY_NEO4J_QUERY_RESULT_LIMIT (default: 10000) - max results per query
- Apply driver settings when creating Neo4j connection (pool size, fetch size, retry time)
- Enforce query result limit as safety cap on all Cypher queries
- Fix QueryForSerials and QueryForIds to preserve LIMIT clauses
- Add comprehensive memory tuning documentation with sizing guidelines
- Add NIP-46 signer-based authentication for bunker connections
- Update go.mod with new dependencies

Files modified:
- app/config/config.go: Add Neo4j driver tuning config vars
- main.go: Pass new config values to database factory
- pkg/database/factory.go: Add Neo4j tuning fields to DatabaseConfig
- pkg/database/factory_wasm.go: Mirror factory.go changes for WASM
- pkg/neo4j/neo4j.go: Apply driver config, add getter methods
- pkg/neo4j/query-events.go: Enforce query result limit, fix LIMIT preservation
- docs/NEO4J_BACKEND.md: Add Memory Tuning section, update Docker example
- CLAUDE.md: Add Neo4j memory tuning quick reference
- app/handle-req.go: NIP-46 signer authentication
- app/publisher.go: HasActiveNIP46Signer check
- pkg/protocol/publish/publisher.go: NIP46SignerChecker interface
- go.mod: Add dependencies

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Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

pkg/database/factory.go

@@ -35,6 +35,12 @@ type DatabaseConfig struct {
 	Neo4jURI      string // ORLY_NEO4J_URI
 	Neo4jUser     string // ORLY_NEO4J_USER
 	Neo4jPassword string // ORLY_NEO4J_PASSWORD
+
+	// Neo4j driver tuning (memory and connection management)
+	Neo4jMaxConnPoolSize   int // ORLY_NEO4J_MAX_CONN_POOL - max connection pool size (default: 25)
+	Neo4jFetchSize         int // ORLY_NEO4J_FETCH_SIZE - max records per fetch batch (default: 1000)
+	Neo4jMaxTxRetrySeconds int // ORLY_NEO4J_MAX_TX_RETRY_SEC - max transaction retry time (default: 30)
+	Neo4jQueryResultLimit  int // ORLY_NEO4J_QUERY_RESULT_LIMIT - max results per query (default: 10000, 0=unlimited)
 }
 
 // NewDatabase creates a database instance based on the specified type.

pkg/database/factory_wasm.go

@@ -31,6 +31,12 @@ type DatabaseConfig struct {
 	Neo4jURI      string // ORLY_NEO4J_URI
 	Neo4jUser     string // ORLY_NEO4J_USER
 	Neo4jPassword string // ORLY_NEO4J_PASSWORD
+
+	// Neo4j driver tuning (memory and connection management)
+	Neo4jMaxConnPoolSize   int // ORLY_NEO4J_MAX_CONN_POOL - max connection pool size (default: 25)
+	Neo4jFetchSize         int // ORLY_NEO4J_FETCH_SIZE - max records per fetch batch (default: 1000)
+	Neo4jMaxTxRetrySeconds int // ORLY_NEO4J_MAX_TX_RETRY_SEC - max transaction retry time (default: 30)
+	Neo4jQueryResultLimit  int // ORLY_NEO4J_QUERY_RESULT_LIMIT - max results per query (default: 10000, 0=unlimited)
 }
 
 // NewDatabase creates a database instance based on the specified type.