Add _graph extension support to Neo4j driver

- Implement TraverseFollows using Cypher path queries on FOLLOWS relationships
- Implement TraverseFollowers using reverse path traversal
- Implement FindMentions using MENTIONS relationships from p-tags
- Implement TraverseThread using REFERENCES relationships from e-tags
  with bidirectional traversal (inbound replies, outbound parents)
- Add GraphAdapter to bridge Neo4j to graph.GraphDatabase interface
- Add GraphResult type implementing graph.GraphResultI for Neo4j
- Initialize graph executor for Neo4j backend in app/main.go

The implementation uses existing Neo4j schema and relationships created
by SaveEvent() - no schema changes required. The _graph extension now
works transparently with either Badger or Neo4j backends.

Bump version to v0.35.0

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Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

pkg/neo4j/graph-adapter.go

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+package neo4j
+
+import (
+	"next.orly.dev/pkg/protocol/graph"
+)
+
+// GraphAdapter wraps a Neo4j database instance and implements graph.GraphDatabase interface.
+// This allows the graph executor to call database traversal methods without
+// the database package importing the graph package.
+type GraphAdapter struct {
+	db *N
+}
+
+// NewGraphAdapter creates a new GraphAdapter wrapping the given Neo4j database.
+func NewGraphAdapter(db *N) *GraphAdapter {
+	return &GraphAdapter{db: db}
+}
+
+// TraverseFollows implements graph.GraphDatabase.
+func (a *GraphAdapter) TraverseFollows(seedPubkey []byte, maxDepth int) (graph.GraphResultI, error) {
+	return a.db.TraverseFollows(seedPubkey, maxDepth)
+}
+
+// TraverseFollowers implements graph.GraphDatabase.
+func (a *GraphAdapter) TraverseFollowers(seedPubkey []byte, maxDepth int) (graph.GraphResultI, error) {
+	return a.db.TraverseFollowers(seedPubkey, maxDepth)
+}
+
+// FindMentions implements graph.GraphDatabase.
+func (a *GraphAdapter) FindMentions(pubkey []byte, kinds []uint16) (graph.GraphResultI, error) {
+	return a.db.FindMentions(pubkey, kinds)
+}
+
+// TraverseThread implements graph.GraphDatabase.
+func (a *GraphAdapter) TraverseThread(seedEventID []byte, maxDepth int, direction string) (graph.GraphResultI, error) {
+	return a.db.TraverseThread(seedEventID, maxDepth, direction)
+}
+
+// Verify GraphAdapter implements graph.GraphDatabase
+var _ graph.GraphDatabase = (*GraphAdapter)(nil)