self-detection elides self url at startup, handles multiple DNS pointers

pkg/spider/spider.go

@@ -7,16 +7,18 @@ import (
 	"sync"
 	"time"
 
-	"lol.mleku.dev/chk"
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/crypto/keys"
-	"lol.mleku.dev/errorf"
-	"lol.mleku.dev/log"
-	"next.orly.dev/pkg/database"
 	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/filter"
 	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/hex"
 	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/tag"
 	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/timestamp"
-	"next.orly.dev/pkg/interfaces/publisher"
 	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/ws"
+	"lol.mleku.dev/chk"
+	"lol.mleku.dev/errorf"
+	"lol.mleku.dev/log"
+	"next.orly.dev/pkg/database"
+	"next.orly.dev/pkg/interfaces/publisher"
+	dsync "next.orly.dev/pkg/sync"
 )
 
 const (
@@ -53,8 +55,10 @@ type Spider struct {
 	mode   string
 
 	// Configuration
-	adminRelays []string
+	adminRelays       []string
-	followList  [][]byte
+	followList        [][]byte
+	relayIdentityPubkey string          // Our relay's identity pubkey (hex)
+	selfURLs          map[string]bool // URLs discovered to be ourselves (for fast lookups)
 
 	// State management
 	mu          sync.RWMutex
@@ -129,14 +133,24 @@ func New(ctx context.Context, db *database.D, pub publisher.I, mode string) (s *
 	}
 
 	ctx, cancel := context.WithCancel(ctx)
+
+	// Get relay identity pubkey for self-detection
+	var relayPubkey string
+	if skb, err := db.GetRelayIdentitySecret(); err == nil && len(skb) == 32 {
+		pk, _ := keys.SecretBytesToPubKeyHex(skb)
+		relayPubkey = pk
+	}
+
 	s = &Spider{
-		ctx:               ctx,
+		ctx:                 ctx,
-		cancel:            cancel,
+		cancel:              cancel,
-		db:                db,
+		db:                  db,
-		pub:               pub,
+		pub:                 pub,
-		mode:              mode,
+		mode:                mode,
-		connections:       make(map[string]*RelayConnection),
+		relayIdentityPubkey: relayPubkey,
-		followListUpdated: make(chan struct{}, 1),
+		selfURLs:            make(map[string]bool),
+		connections:         make(map[string]*RelayConnection),
+		followListUpdated:   make(chan struct{}, 1),
 	}
 
 	return
@@ -254,9 +268,15 @@ func (s *Spider) updateConnections() {
 		return
 	}
 
-	// Update connections for current admin relays
+	// Update connections for current admin relays (filtering out self)
 	currentRelays := make(map[string]bool)
 	for _, url := range adminRelays {
+		// Check if this relay URL is ourselves
+		if s.isSelfRelay(url) {
+			log.D.F("spider: skipping self-relay: %s", url)
+			continue
+		}
+
 		currentRelays[url] = true
 
 		if conn, exists := s.connections[url]; exists {
@@ -804,3 +824,42 @@ func (rc *RelayConnection) close() {
 
 	rc.cancel()
 }
+
+// isSelfRelay checks if a relay URL is actually ourselves by comparing NIP-11 pubkeys
+func (s *Spider) isSelfRelay(relayURL string) bool {
+	// If we don't have a relay identity pubkey, can't compare
+	if s.relayIdentityPubkey == "" {
+		return false
+	}
+
+	s.mu.RLock()
+	// Fast path: check if we already know this URL is ours
+	if s.selfURLs[relayURL] {
+		s.mu.RUnlock()
+		log.D.F("spider: skipping self-relay (known URL): %s", relayURL)
+		return true
+	}
+	s.mu.RUnlock()
+
+	// Slow path: check via NIP-11 pubkey
+	nip11Cache := dsync.NewNIP11Cache(30 * time.Minute)
+	ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), 5*time.Second)
+	defer cancel()
+
+	peerPubkey, err := nip11Cache.GetPubkey(ctx, relayURL)
+	if err != nil {
+		log.D.F("spider: couldn't fetch NIP-11 for %s: %v", relayURL, err)
+		return false
+	}
+
+	if peerPubkey == s.relayIdentityPubkey {
+		log.I.F("spider: discovered self-relay: %s (pubkey: %s)", relayURL, s.relayIdentityPubkey)
+		// Cache this URL as ours for future fast lookups
+		s.mu.Lock()
+		s.selfURLs[relayURL] = true
+		s.mu.Unlock()
+		return true
+	}
+
+	return false
+}

pkg/sync/cluster.go

@@ -25,6 +25,7 @@ type ClusterManager struct {
 	db                            *database.D
 	adminNpubs                    []string
 	relayIdentityPubkey           string                    // Our relay's identity pubkey (hex)
+	selfURLs                      map[string]bool           // URLs discovered to be ourselves (for fast lookups)
 	members                       map[string]*ClusterMember // keyed by relay URL
 	membersMux                    sync.RWMutex
 	pollTicker                    *time.Ticker
@@ -78,6 +79,7 @@ func NewClusterManager(ctx context.Context, db *database.D, adminNpubs []string,
 		db:                        db,
 		adminNpubs:                adminNpubs,
 		relayIdentityPubkey:       relayPubkey,
+		selfURLs:                  make(map[string]bool),
 		members:                   make(map[string]*ClusterMember),
 		pollDone:                  make(chan struct{}),
 		propagatePrivilegedEvents: propagatePrivilegedEvents,
@@ -265,48 +267,47 @@ func (cm *ClusterManager) UpdateMembership(relayURLs []string) {
 		}
 	}
 
-	// Add new members
+	// Add new members (filter out self once at this point)
 	for _, url := range relayURLs {
-		// Skip if this is our own relay (check via NIP-11 pubkey)
+		// Skip if already exists
-		if cm.isSelfRelay(url) {
+		if _, exists := cm.members[url]; exists {
-			log.D.F("skipping cluster member (self): %s (pubkey matches our relay identity)", url)
 			continue
 		}
 
-		if _, exists := cm.members[url]; !exists {
+		// Fast path: check if we already know this URL is ours
-			// For simplicity, assume HTTP and WebSocket URLs are the same
+		if cm.selfURLs[url] {
-			// In practice, you'd need to parse these properly
+			log.I.F("removed self from cluster members (known URL): %s", url)
-			member := &ClusterMember{
+			continue
-				HTTPURL:      url,
-				WebSocketURL: url, // TODO: Convert to WebSocket URL
-				LastSerial:   0,
-				Status:       "unknown",
-			}
-			cm.members[url] = member
-			log.I.F("added cluster member: %s", url)
 		}
+
+		// Slow path: check via NIP-11 pubkey
+		if cm.relayIdentityPubkey != "" {
+			ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), 5*time.Second)
+			peerPubkey, err := cm.nip11Cache.GetPubkey(ctx, url)
+			cancel()
+
+			if err != nil {
+				log.D.F("couldn't fetch NIP-11 for %s, adding to cluster anyway: %v", url, err)
+			} else if peerPubkey == cm.relayIdentityPubkey {
+				log.I.F("removed self from cluster members (discovered): %s (pubkey: %s)", url, cm.relayIdentityPubkey)
+				// Cache this URL as ours for future fast lookups
+				cm.selfURLs[url] = true
+				continue
+			}
+		}
+
+		// Add member
+		member := &ClusterMember{
+			HTTPURL:      url,
+			WebSocketURL: url, // TODO: Convert to WebSocket URL
+			LastSerial:   0,
+			Status:       "unknown",
+		}
+		cm.members[url] = member
+		log.I.F("added cluster member: %s", url)
 	}
 }
 
-// isSelfRelay checks if a relay URL is actually ourselves by comparing NIP-11 pubkeys
-func (cm *ClusterManager) isSelfRelay(relayURL string) bool {
-	// If we don't have a relay identity pubkey, can't compare
-	if cm.relayIdentityPubkey == "" {
-		return false
-	}
-
-	ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), 5*time.Second)
-	defer cancel()
-
-	peerPubkey, err := cm.nip11Cache.GetPubkey(ctx, relayURL)
-	if err != nil {
-		log.D.F("couldn't fetch NIP-11 for %s to check if self: %v", relayURL, err)
-		return false
-	}
-
-	return peerPubkey == cm.relayIdentityPubkey
-}
-
 // HandleMembershipEvent processes a cluster membership event (Kind 39108)
 func (cm *ClusterManager) HandleMembershipEvent(event *event.E) error {
 	// Verify the event is signed by a cluster admin
@@ -352,18 +353,37 @@ func (cm *ClusterManager) HandleLatestSerial(w http.ResponseWriter, r *http.Requ
 	}
 
 	// Check if request is from ourselves by examining the Referer or Origin header
+	// Note: Self-members are already filtered out, but this catches edge cases
 	origin := r.Header.Get("Origin")
 	referer := r.Header.Get("Referer")
 
-	if origin != "" && cm.isSelfRelay(origin) {
+	if cm.relayIdentityPubkey != "" && (origin != "" || referer != "") {
-		log.D.F("rejecting cluster latest request from self (origin: %s)", origin)
+		checkURL := origin
-		http.Error(w, "Cannot sync with self", http.StatusBadRequest)
+		if checkURL == "" {
-		return
+			checkURL = referer
-	}
+		}
-	if referer != "" && cm.isSelfRelay(referer) {
+
-		log.D.F("rejecting cluster latest request from self (referer: %s)", referer)
+		// Fast path: check known self-URLs
-		http.Error(w, "Cannot sync with self", http.StatusBadRequest)
+		if cm.selfURLs[checkURL] {
-		return
+			log.D.F("rejecting cluster latest request from self (known URL): %s", checkURL)
+			http.Error(w, "Cannot sync with self", http.StatusBadRequest)
+			return
+		}
+
+		// Slow path: verify via NIP-11
+		ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), 3*time.Second)
+		peerPubkey, err := cm.nip11Cache.GetPubkey(ctx, checkURL)
+		cancel()
+
+		if err == nil && peerPubkey == cm.relayIdentityPubkey {
+			log.D.F("rejecting cluster latest request from self (discovered): %s", checkURL)
+			// Cache for future fast lookups
+			cm.membersMux.Lock()
+			cm.selfURLs[checkURL] = true
+			cm.membersMux.Unlock()
+			http.Error(w, "Cannot sync with self", http.StatusBadRequest)
+			return
+		}
 	}
 
 	// Get the latest serial from database by querying for the highest serial
@@ -390,18 +410,37 @@ func (cm *ClusterManager) HandleEventsRange(w http.ResponseWriter, r *http.Reque
 	}
 
 	// Check if request is from ourselves by examining the Referer or Origin header
+	// Note: Self-members are already filtered out, but this catches edge cases
 	origin := r.Header.Get("Origin")
 	referer := r.Header.Get("Referer")
 
-	if origin != "" && cm.isSelfRelay(origin) {
+	if cm.relayIdentityPubkey != "" && (origin != "" || referer != "") {
-		log.D.F("rejecting cluster events request from self (origin: %s)", origin)
+		checkURL := origin
-		http.Error(w, "Cannot sync with self", http.StatusBadRequest)
+		if checkURL == "" {
-		return
+			checkURL = referer
-	}
+		}
-	if referer != "" && cm.isSelfRelay(referer) {
+
-		log.D.F("rejecting cluster events request from self (referer: %s)", referer)
+		// Fast path: check known self-URLs
-		http.Error(w, "Cannot sync with self", http.StatusBadRequest)
+		if cm.selfURLs[checkURL] {
-		return
+			log.D.F("rejecting cluster events request from self (known URL): %s", checkURL)
+			http.Error(w, "Cannot sync with self", http.StatusBadRequest)
+			return
+		}
+
+		// Slow path: verify via NIP-11
+		ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), 3*time.Second)
+		peerPubkey, err := cm.nip11Cache.GetPubkey(ctx, checkURL)
+		cancel()
+
+		if err == nil && peerPubkey == cm.relayIdentityPubkey {
+			log.D.F("rejecting cluster events request from self (discovered): %s", checkURL)
+			// Cache for future fast lookups
+			cm.membersMux.Lock()
+			cm.selfURLs[checkURL] = true
+			cm.membersMux.Unlock()
+			http.Error(w, "Cannot sync with self", http.StatusBadRequest)
+			return
+		}
 	}
 
 	// Parse query parameters

pkg/sync/manager.go

@@ -26,6 +26,7 @@ type Manager struct {
 	nodeID          string
 	relayURL        string
 	peers           []string
+	selfURLs        map[string]bool   // URLs discovered to be ourselves (for fast lookups)
 	currentSerial   uint64
 	peerSerials     map[string]uint64 // peer URL -> latest serial seen
 	relayGroupMgr   *RelayGroupManager
@@ -72,6 +73,7 @@ func NewManager(ctx context.Context, db *database.D, nodeID, relayURL string, pe
 		nodeID:         nodeID,
 		relayURL:       relayURL,
 		peers:          peers,
+		selfURLs:       make(map[string]bool),
 		currentSerial:   0,
 		peerSerials:     make(map[string]uint64),
 		relayGroupMgr:  relayGroupMgr,
@@ -79,6 +81,44 @@ func NewManager(ctx context.Context, db *database.D, nodeID, relayURL string, pe
 		policyManager:  policyManager,
 	}
 
+	// Add our configured relay URL to self-URLs cache if provided
+	if m.relayURL != "" {
+		m.selfURLs[m.relayURL] = true
+	}
+
+	// Remove self from peer list once at startup if we have a nodeID
+	if m.nodeID != "" {
+		filteredPeers := make([]string, 0, len(m.peers))
+		for _, peerURL := range m.peers {
+			// Fast path: check if we already know this URL is ours
+			if m.selfURLs[peerURL] {
+				log.I.F("removed self from sync peer list (known URL): %s", peerURL)
+				continue
+			}
+
+			// Slow path: check via NIP-11 pubkey
+			ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), 5*time.Second)
+			peerPubkey, err := m.nip11Cache.GetPubkey(ctx, peerURL)
+			cancel()
+
+			if err != nil {
+				log.D.F("couldn't fetch NIP-11 for %s, keeping in peer list: %v", peerURL, err)
+				filteredPeers = append(filteredPeers, peerURL)
+				continue
+			}
+
+			if peerPubkey == m.nodeID {
+				log.I.F("removed self from sync peer list (discovered): %s (pubkey: %s)", peerURL, m.nodeID)
+				// Cache this URL as ours for future fast lookups
+				m.selfURLs[peerURL] = true
+				continue
+			}
+
+			filteredPeers = append(filteredPeers, peerURL)
+		}
+		m.peers = filteredPeers
+	}
+
 	// Start sync routine
 	go m.syncRoutine()
 
@@ -173,36 +213,13 @@ func (m *Manager) syncRoutine() {
 // syncWithPeersSequentially syncs with all configured peers one at a time
 func (m *Manager) syncWithPeersSequentially() {
 	for _, peerURL := range m.peers {
-		// Check if this peer is ourselves via NIP-11 pubkey
+		// Self-peers are already filtered out during initialization/update
-		if m.isSelfPeer(peerURL) {
-			log.D.F("skipping sync with self: %s (pubkey matches our relay identity)", peerURL)
-			continue
-		}
 		m.syncWithPeer(peerURL)
 		// Small delay between peers to avoid overwhelming
 		time.Sleep(100 * time.Millisecond)
 	}
 }
 
-// isSelfPeer checks if a peer URL is actually ourselves by comparing NIP-11 pubkeys
-func (m *Manager) isSelfPeer(peerURL string) bool {
-	// If we don't have a nodeID, can't compare
-	if m.nodeID == "" {
-		return false
-	}
-
-	ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), 5*time.Second)
-	defer cancel()
-
-	peerPubkey, err := m.nip11Cache.GetPubkey(ctx, peerURL)
-	if err != nil {
-		log.D.F("couldn't fetch NIP-11 for %s to check if self: %v", peerURL, err)
-		return false
-	}
-
-	return peerPubkey == m.nodeID
-}
-
 // syncWithPeer syncs with a specific peer
 func (m *Manager) syncWithPeer(peerURL string) {
 	// Get the peer's current serial
@@ -417,6 +434,13 @@ func (m *Manager) HandleCurrentRequest(w http.ResponseWriter, r *http.Request) {
 	// Reject requests from ourselves (same nodeID)
 	if req.NodeID != "" && req.NodeID == m.nodeID {
 		log.D.F("rejecting sync current request from self (nodeID: %s)", req.NodeID)
+		// Cache the requesting relay URL as ours for future fast lookups
+		if req.RelayURL != "" {
+			m.mutex.Lock()
+			m.selfURLs[req.RelayURL] = true
+			m.mutex.Unlock()
+			log.D.F("cached self-URL from inbound request: %s", req.RelayURL)
+		}
 		http.Error(w, "Cannot sync with self", http.StatusBadRequest)
 		return
 	}
@@ -447,6 +471,13 @@ func (m *Manager) HandleEventIDsRequest(w http.ResponseWriter, r *http.Request)
 	// Reject requests from ourselves (same nodeID)
 	if req.NodeID != "" && req.NodeID == m.nodeID {
 		log.D.F("rejecting sync event-ids request from self (nodeID: %s)", req.NodeID)
+		// Cache the requesting relay URL as ours for future fast lookups
+		if req.RelayURL != "" {
+			m.mutex.Lock()
+			m.selfURLs[req.RelayURL] = true
+			m.mutex.Unlock()
+			log.D.F("cached self-URL from inbound request: %s", req.RelayURL)
+		}
 		http.Error(w, "Cannot sync with self", http.StatusBadRequest)
 		return
 	}

pkg/version/version

@@ -1 +1 @@
-v0.29.18
+v0.29.19