Add detailed tag filter debugging logs in QueryEvents and update rules.md with context and debugging guidance.

.aiassistant/rules/rules.md

@@ -89,3 +89,7 @@ A good typical example:
 // - Initializes the relay, starting its operation in a separate goroutine.
 
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+
+use the source of the relay-tester to help guide what expectations the test has, 
+and use context7 for information about the nostr protocol, and use additional 
+log statements to help locate the cause of bugs