Implement comprehensive WebSocket subscription stability fixes

- Resolved critical issues causing subscriptions to drop after 30-60 seconds due to unconsumed receiver channels.
- Introduced per-subscription consumer goroutines to ensure continuous event delivery and prevent channel overflow.
- Enhanced REQ parsing to handle both wrapped and unwrapped filter arrays, eliminating EOF errors.
- Updated publisher logic to correctly send events to receiver channels, ensuring proper event delivery to subscribers.
- Added extensive documentation and testing tools to verify subscription stability and performance.
- Bumped version to v0.26.2 to reflect these significant improvements.

MESSAGE_QUEUE_FIX.md

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+# Message Queue Fix
+
+## Issue Discovered
+
+When running the subscription test, the relay logs showed:
+```
+⚠️ ws->10.0.0.2 message queue full, dropping message (capacity=100)
+```
+
+## Root Cause
+
+The `messageProcessor` goroutine was processing messages **synchronously**, one at a time:
+
+```go
+// BEFORE (blocking)
+func (l *Listener) messageProcessor() {
+    for {
+        case req := <-l.messageQueue:
+            l.HandleMessage(req.data, req.remote)  // BLOCKS until done
+    }
+}
+```
+
+**Problem:**
+- `HandleMessage` → `HandleReq` can take several seconds (database queries, event delivery)
+- While one message is being processed, new messages pile up in the queue
+- Queue fills up (100 message capacity)
+- New messages get dropped
+
+## Solution
+
+Process messages **concurrently** by launching each in its own goroutine (khatru pattern):
+
+```go
+// AFTER (concurrent)
+func (l *Listener) messageProcessor() {
+    for {
+        case req := <-l.messageQueue:
+            go l.HandleMessage(req.data, req.remote)  // NON-BLOCKING
+    }
+}
+```
+
+**Benefits:**
+- Multiple messages can be processed simultaneously
+- Fast operations (CLOSE, AUTH) don't wait behind slow operations (REQ)
+- Queue rarely fills up
+- No message drops
+
+## khatru Pattern
+
+This matches how khatru handles messages:
+
+1. **Sequential parsing** (in read loop) - Parser state can't be shared
+2. **Concurrent handling** (separate goroutines) - Each message independent
+
+From khatru:
+```go
+// Parse message (sequential, in read loop)
+envelope, err := smp.ParseMessage(message)
+
+// Handle message (concurrent, in goroutine)
+go func(message string) {
+    switch env := envelope.(type) {
+    case *nostr.EventEnvelope:
+        handleEvent(ctx, ws, env, rl)
+    case *nostr.ReqEnvelope:
+        handleReq(ctx, ws, env, rl)
+    // ...
+    }
+}(message)
+```
+
+## Files Changed
+
+- `app/listener.go:199` - Added `go` keyword before `l.HandleMessage()`
+
+## Impact
+
+**Before:**
+- Message queue filled up quickly
+- Messages dropped under load
+- Slow operations blocked everything
+
+**After:**
+- Messages processed concurrently
+- Queue rarely fills up
+- Each message type processed at its own pace
+
+## Testing
+
+```bash
+# Build with fix
+go build -o orly
+
+# Run relay
+./orly
+
+# Run subscription test (should not see queue warnings)
+./subscription-test-simple -duration 120
+```
+
+## Performance Notes
+
+**Goroutine overhead:** Minimal (~2KB per goroutine)
+- Modern Go runtime handles thousands of goroutines efficiently
+- Typical connection: 1-5 concurrent goroutines at a time
+- Under load: Goroutines naturally throttle based on CPU/IO capacity
+
+**Message ordering:** No longer guaranteed within a connection
+- This is fine for Nostr protocol (messages are independent)
+- Each message type can complete at its own pace
+- Matches khatru behavior
+
+## Summary
+
+The message queue was filling up because messages were processed synchronously. By processing them concurrently (one goroutine per message), we match khatru's proven architecture and eliminate message drops.
+
+**Status:** ✅ Fixed in app/listener.go:199