Fix binary tag value handling for e/p tags across database layer

- Update nostr library to v1.0.3 with improved binary tag support
- Replace tag.Value() calls with tag.ValueHex() to handle both binary and hex formats
- Add NormalizeTagValueForHash() for consistent filter tag normalization
- Update QueryPTagGraph to handle binary-encoded and hex-encoded pubkeys
- Fix tag matching in query-events.go using TagValuesMatchUsingTagMethods
- Add filter_utils.go with tag normalization helper functions
- Update delete operations in process-delete.go and neo4j/delete.go
- Fix ACL follows extraction to use ValueHex() for consistent decoding
- Add binary_tag_filter_test.go for testing tag value normalization
- Bump version to v0.30.3

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